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The overthrow of youth ministry as we know it

Posted on Tuesday 15 August 2006 by Greg @ 6:53 am
Filed under: Rants

Revolution:       “A sudden or momentous change in a situation; to overthrow the current system for something radical and fresh”

Youth ministry needs a revolution. It needs to be overthrown, retooled and reborn. The majority of what passes as youth ministry is organized babysitting: songs, games, a short devo and pizza afterward…yippee! 
Mark Senter III wrote in The Coming Revolution in Youth Ministry that there is no way which the programs and youth ministry tactics currently being used will ever stem the moral tidal wave of corruption that has encompassed our teenagers. In his book Mr. Senter emphasizes again and again the urgent need for a fundamental transformation of the way that youth ministry is done in America.

Not much has chaned in the decade or so since Mark Senter wrote those words.

If you disagree with his radical assertion (that our overall approach to youth ministry is a failed experiment) stop and think about three startling realities:

Grim statistics 

  • According to Dr. Gary Railsback up to 50% of evangelical college freshman will forsake their Christian beliefs by their senior year of college.
  • According to George Barna (in Third Millenium Teens) 2 out of 3 Christian teens will evacuate the church after they graduate from high school. In addition 63% of our teens don’t believe Jesus is the Son of the one true God, 58% believe all faiths teach equally valid truths, 51% don’t believe Jesus rose from the dead and 70% don’t believe an absolute moral truth exists.

Not only are we failing to reach the non Christian teens in our culture we are failing to reach the “Christian” teens in our own youth groups for the most part.

Oopsy poopsy (how did we miss that one?)

Sad stories      
 

We all have bad, sad stories of teens who have forsaken their Christian roots for the forbidden fruit that this world slithers to offer them as high school and college students. We are not alone. Jesus had Judas. Paul had Demas. Who do you have?

Who is your Demas, your Judas? Think of that one student (or two or three or four or more) in your youth group who turned on Jesus. As I think of the teens in my youth group who became sad stories I have to ask myself if there was anything I could have done to have prevented them from going AWOL. Ask yourself the same thing.

Instrospection stinks doesn’t it?

Weak answers

I believe that, for the most part, the answers that typical 21st youth ministry thinking has proposed for these problematic stats and stories are weak. Most curriculum factories churn out dummied down tidbits of truth that barely challenge the thinking of the average Christian teen. Of course, there are exceptions to this (praise God!) But the average curriculum taught at the average youth group is producing average Christianity. And “average Christianity” is an oxymoron that ranks right up there with “jumbo shrimp” and “military intelligence.” Average Christianity is not enough to give our teens the moral fiber they are going to need to serve Christ with passion in the temptation trap called the college life.

The same Christian teens going to your youth group every week are taking Calculus, Trig and economics at school. Their minds are being pushed by ambitious teachers, trying to expand the thinking of their students. Meanwhile we are giving them five reasons not to have sex before they get married. I’m all for abstinence. But what about the character of God, the deity of Jesus, the doctrine of justification, sanctification and glorification? Plunge a teen headfirst into who God is, what salvation is and all the good stuff of theology then abstinence, holiness, and practical Christianity (including abstinence) is a no-brainer.

Spurgeon (a preacher who lived a long time ago that every youth leader should know and quote) said that “The key to great preaching is great subjects.” Many curriculums on the market today have taken the greatest subjects, hidden them behind the counter of coolness and offered us and our kids a fastfood diet of "relevant issues" instead.

The problem is that we have forgotten that God’s truth, all of it, is immensely relevant. But, instead of working hard to show how God’s great truths apply to the lives of  our teenagers we have bowed before the altar of convenience instead and capitulated to the pop god of relevant hippness (I’m not sure what that means but it sounds pretty good!)

Is there hope?

YES! I am thrilled at what God is beginning to do in the world of youth ministry. God has placed many key youth ministry leaders in my path who are being awakened to this reality (not by me but by God) and rolling up their sleeves to do something about it. A movement is bubbling uder the surface and about to boil over the top. I definitely believe that God is going to do something that is going to make our hearts burn and truly revolutionize our youth ministry paradigms.

In the meantime what can you do?

Push your teens. Push their thinking. Expand their minds through the amazing truths in the Word of God. Help them stop and meditate on the mystical, mind-blowing truths of God. Get a good old fashioned debate going over key theological truths. The fireworks will trigger spiritual endorphins in your teens’ minds and souls that will help them to know and own the truth for themselves instead of living off borrowed faith. (By the way are you signed up for the free youth leader curriculum on www.dare2share.org? It’s called Soul Fuel and every edition deals with one of the 30 core truths of Christianity. It comes out the beginning of every week and it’s free. Did I tell you it’s FREE?)

It’s time we believe in teens, motivate them to go for it and unleash them in real and viable ways to change the world. In so doing they themselves will be changed and youth ministry will be revolutionized.

Don’t wait for the curriculum or the conference or the whitepaper. Revolution begins with a simple, radical idea. These radical ideas are often simple to understand yet hard to execute. Why? Because, as one sage put it, “Every significant break through started as a break with.” If you join the revolution you will be breaking with mainstream youth ministry thought.

The real revolution begins with you. If you are willing to live a revolutionary life then God will use you in powerful ways to launch the revolution in your teens. Revolution ultimately finds its epicenter, not in a revolutionized curriculum or youth ministry model, but a revolutionized life.

And did I mention to pray? Nothing of spiritual significance will ever happen apart from unrelenting, pure-hearted, passionate prayer.

Let the revolution begin in you and me.

                             

Signed, Greg Stier

16 Comments for 'The overthrow of youth ministry as we know it'

  1. On August 15, 2006 @ 8:43 am bruthakurt said:
    • I’m in!  I commit to do my part with my group! Kurt

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  2. On August 15, 2006 @ 9:36 am Becky said:
    • Awesome Greg.~becky~

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  3. On August 15, 2006 @ 9:42 am Jason said:
    • Thank God it’s finally been said.  Answering YES to a revolution doesn’t do anything unless we all play our part to bring it about.  I think God would love to see revival in our land, but just because we agree that we want to see revival doesn’t mean it will happen.  We have to step it up, break from the norm, and lead out into uncharted and even unfamiliar territory.  Anticipating something BIG, and playing my part as I go.

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  4. On August 15, 2006 @ 2:55 pm David said:
    • Greg You are right on the money.  Thanks to you and your team for doing your part to help our youth.  With your help we have a medium that is up to date on youth trends while revealing who God is.  It is our relationship with God that drives everything else. It is our view and understanding of God that should be at the top of the list just as James Boice and Bill Bright preached for years.  Keep up the hard work and let us know how we can assist. Yours in Christ, Dave  

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  5. On August 15, 2006 @ 6:19 pm Jason said:
    • Right on, Greg. I especially agree with the part about teaching the foundations of a Christian worldview and the practical side will often follow. After spending time in the teen culture, I am often overwhelmed by the dark tide our teens face every day. We can’t give them candy for 15 minutes a week and expect to overcome that tide!

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  6. On August 16, 2006 @ 9:02 am Scott Eaton said:
    • You are right on Greg.  When I was in seminary our president challenged all the would be youth pastors to take teenagers and challenge them.  He said that youth will rise to the challenge.  I’ll never forget his words, "Make the mountains high and tell them to climb them!" I think we short-change the students in our churches.  We treat them like they are incapable of handling the great truths of Scripture.  No wonder they dump the church and the faith.  I agree that it is high time we start treating teens like the intelligent, soul-thirsty people that they are. We have a kid in our youth group who has read this year a 1400 page Systematic Theology, Keep in Step with the Spirit by J.I. Packer (doctrine of sanctification), and The Religious Affections by Jonathon Edwards.  He devoured these books!  He also regularly reads the Bible and prays, leads breakout groups among our junior high students, and witnesses to his friends at school.  (By the way, the kid also has a mean outside shot on the basketball court!) I am grateful that God has put you in a place to sound a clarion call to youth pastors (and Senior Pastors) to stop treating our kids like intellectual and spiritual idiots - craming the same diet of spiritual pablum down their throats - and to start treating them with respect for the wonderful, intelligent, spiritually thirsty human beings that they are.  Our kids will only rise to the level that they are challenged by us.

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  7. On August 16, 2006 @ 9:05 am Scott Eaton said:
    • By the way Greg - how’s it going with Dallimore?  That’s some mean reading!

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  8. On August 16, 2006 @ 2:44 pm Natalie Williams said:
    • God help us as we attemp to break the "spiritual hobby" of the churched,and touch the world with the reality of a Savior who loves the raw, messy, lovely disasters. May we break down the walls of the church-with it’s dry, watered down imitation of the Gospel and truly become the BODY of CHRIST. I pray that we can effectivly get a hold of these students heart and allow the Spirit to cause a revival thrughout the world. Here I am Lord send me.

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  9. On August 16, 2006 @ 2:58 pm the cj said:
    • Thanks alot Greg! There goes my "5 reasons not to…" lesson I was going to give tonight. I guess I’ll have to look into this theology thing. (jk)  I appreciate the challenge!

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  10. On August 18, 2006 @ 9:36 am jonahtan hendrix said:
    •               GREG, I AM A STUDENT. I AM 17. THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT. I AM SO HUNGRY FOR THE REAL GOD THAT I KNOW AND LOVE. I AM SO READY TO TELL MY YOUTH ABOUT THIS REAL GOD WHO IS A FRIEND. TO GIVE THEM ITIMACY WITH GOD, TO KNOW THE AWESOME GOD. I HAVE A VISION FOR MY YOUTH GROUP AND ALL CHRISTIANS: FINDING OUT WHAT THEIR GIFTS ARE AND TEACHING THEM TO USE THEM. I AM AN EVAGELIST. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND SAY HI TO RACHAEL WASHINGTON. SHE HAS TOUCHED SOME GIRLS AND MYSELF IN SOME POWERFUL WAYS AS HAVE YOU AND ALL THE D2S TEAM.  THANK YOU ALL AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!! PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY INSIGHT OR ADVICE, PLEASE FILL FREE TO SHARE THEM WITH ME?!   

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  11. On August 18, 2006 @ 10:32 am Walt Mueller said:
    • Preach it Greg! Thanks for continuing to never be satisfied. Walt Mueller

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  12. On August 18, 2006 @ 8:45 pm Ashley Buckner said:
    • You always seem to know how to say what you want to say, Greg. Well put! L8r. Signing off, Ashley

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  13. On August 21, 2006 @ 7:45 pm Chris Peale said:
    • Greg, thank you for this powerful ministry.  Dare2Share has been the catalyst to the revolution in our Youth Ministry.  In fact, we named our ministry the "One Way Revolution" to challenge our students to revolt against this dark world, but with God’s love.  We just completed the Gospel Journey and what an awesome message/testimony/tool for our teens to watch.  Your explanations throughout this series were so profound, yet simple for anyone to understand.  Thank you again for great information and your energetic heart.  Your passion is contagious.  Our youth are praying to infect the world by using G.O.S.P.E.L.  God Bless!

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  14. On August 22, 2006 @ 7:54 am Troy VanHorn said:
    • As a leader of students and young adults, I am confronted with the fact that my faith must grow along with my students.  I cannot sit back and simply teach the simple truths about Jesus Christ without living them out daily.  Practical faith produces practical results.  When we begin to live our lives as believers in this world, our kids will follow because we have all heard it said "If you light yourself on fire, you are sure to attract a crowd!"  If I believe Him enough to burn up or out for Him, (in the world’s eyes) then people will see and take notice.   TVH 

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  15. On August 30, 2006 @ 11:58 am Devin T. Didier said:
    • Through the power of the cross and the delight we have in the Spirit of God, let us draw near to Christ’s heart as we search the truth’s that He laid down for us so completely in His word! We must delve deep into the richness of God’s truth!  We will see our youth delight at His table once they taste and see that His truth is like honey on their lips!  Let us never tire of bringing them to the table to feast.  Greg you have spoken great truth!  We must also challenge their parents to partake as well, so that they are equipped to feed them too!  The break down of the family has lead to unrest in all areas of the Christ’s church.  We must fortify the walls with sound doctrine and spiritual truth so that we all might stand! Keep reaching!  DTD

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  16. On March 12, 2007 @ 12:47 pm Scott Wilcher said:
    • Hey Greg, Just started a minstry called the UpStream Project because of the very stats and trends you are seeing in youth ministry. We equip churches to reach and retain the next generation. To accomplish that goal we have to rethink all aspects of youth ministry. Lots of stuff to discuss, and would love to talk at some point as time allows. Scott 

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