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Invincible Youth Ministry Conference Tour

Our first father/son trip

Posted on Wednesday 7 March 2007 by Greg @ 5:18 pm
Filed under: Rants

As I type these words I’m on a plane sitting next to my six year old boy. It is our first father/son trip together. We’ve been on plenty of family trips. But this is the first one where Jeremy and I are flying solo.

About a month and a half ago I was asked by the good folks who work with Jay Strack if I’d be willing to fill in as a keynote in the place of a speaker who dropped out of their youth leaders’ summit. My immediate mental response was a firm “no.” I’ve gotten good at saying “no” to good things (as it’s been said sometimes the enemy of the best is the good.) To be honest the timing could not have been worse to say “yes” to anything. We are right in the middle of the last leg of our training tour. We have been going back to back to back, to the point where my back and just about everything else hurts.

But when I asked where this youth leader’s summit thingamabob was being held all bets were off (no it’s not Vegas.) The place where they are holding this powerhouse youth leader event is the vacation destination for millions of people across the world (no it’s not Lincoln, Nebraska.) 

We are on our way to Orlando!

The training that I do tomorrow is at Universal Studios in the Hard Rock Café. There should be somewhere around 1,500 youth leaders getting fired up and trained up and later on jacked up on the crazy, mindblowing rides at the park.

I can’t wait. Neither can Jeremy.

When they asked me if I could fill in for them as a keynote I did a little negotiation. Since I don’t personally take any of my honorariums (they all go to “feed the beast” that is Dare 2 Share) every once in awhile I’ll see if I can negotiate in a little fun time with my  family. I asked them if they could throw in a few days at the parks for me and my little boy. They didn’t hesitate and I’m glad. 

Don’t get me wrong I really am looking forward to speaking to these youth leaders. I have a message that I can’t wait to communicate to them. By God’s grace I believe it will challenge and encourage them to realize that youth ministry, done the right way with the right heart, is worth it. 

But there is another ministry I’m really, really excited about: the ministry of spending time with my little boy. My prayer is that trips like this will help fill his little memory banks with times on the road ministering by daddy’s side (okay and riding a roller coaster or two too!) 

I can’t wait to take my first father/daughter trip alone with Kailey. 

Hey sweetie, take care of my little girl when I’m gone! We love you both and miss you already!

 

Signed, Greg Stier

10 Comments for 'Our first father/son trip'

  1. On March 7, 2007 @ 5:38 pm Becky said:
    • Awww I hope you have a fun time.I am still reading your book and am enjoying it.

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  2. On March 7, 2007 @ 5:52 pm fordiym said:
    • Have a great time with your son! Though we do not have kids (we’ve been trying) I cherish those moments with my wife when I’m not running from church to church and camp to camp. God will bless the time you have together.

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  3. On March 7, 2007 @ 8:09 pm erika said:
    • hey greg thats so cool how you want to spend time with your son.  i got in a little "disagreement" with my dad, i recently gave my life to God and i havent talked to my dad like actually talked to him ever in my life (he was abusive when i was little so we never really talked) and today he told me that i would eaither have to choose him or God, and it was hard (but i did choose my dad…in heaven) so it is really encoruaging when i see dads like you who want to spend time with their kids.  just another reason to show why you are so cool :) God bless -eRika

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  4. On March 7, 2007 @ 10:54 pm Raelene said:
    • Hey Greg!! That’s so awesome that you took your son along with you :D  My Dad is a pastor and so I know how it can get pretty crazy and be hard to find family time, but some of my favorite trips were the ones I went on with just me and my Dad to go preach to a bunch of old people :D  I was so proud to learn to read the map haha.  We never got to go to Orlando, though, and my Dad wasn’t teaching youth leaders, so your son is pretty lucky ;) but it was still God’s work and its always a good thing for a child to see their parents following Christ in every aspect of their life.  I pray that one day God bless me with a wonderful family, like yours, and that my husband and I can be the kind of parents that teach their children to put God first in everything they do.  You are such an inspiration and an encouragment to me.  Thank you for continuing to stand strong in the Lord and for sharing your little life memories with all of us!!  Pray hard, keep on, and rock the faith!! By His Grace, Raelene E. Sawyer

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  5. On March 8, 2007 @ 8:28 am Becky said:
    • Prayer Request: For my youth leader Eric and his wife Layna,they think Layna’s baby won’t live because it does not have a heartbeat.When I heard this I wanted to cry. ~Becky~

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  6. On March 9, 2007 @ 12:01 pm Alex said:
    • Congrats on the trip!  Hey thanks again for everything you do.  Saturday is going to be my date with my 7 year old boy.  Here is his plan.  First we get to blast some rockets to the moon, then we have to go eat, and finally a little bowling.  I have been busy most weekends this year raising money for camp, going to D2S in Phoenix last weekend etc, etc. so I too am looking forward to the ministry of time with my son.    I often think my own two kids think I love my Church kids more than them.  Anyone got some wisdom for a busy volunteer youth Pastor with a family and a full time job?  It gets crazy.  On top of that I have just lost one of my volunteers that was teaching my Wed. night youth class.  Little help please! Just kidding.  I am thankful that God has provided you a chance to spend time with your son!

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  7. On March 9, 2007 @ 6:02 pm Caitlin said:
    • Sorry to hear you’re hurting all over, and it’s cute that you get to spend time with your son. (I remeber the story you told us in St, louis, about your son and the heart broken old lady in the store. that was hilarious!!) Have fun on the remaining D2S trips and try not to hurt your self.

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  8. On March 12, 2007 @ 9:53 am Kyle said:
    • have a great time, Greg!

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  9. On March 14, 2007 @ 8:17 pm Craig said:
    • I was an attendee at the Summit–thanks for your message.  I really appreciated your obvious obedience to God’s direction for your life.  I have been spending a lot of time lately (more so than usual) seeking ways to fire up our youth to share their faith.  I see God continuing to work in the lives of this generation and your willingness to share your time with us was definitely motivational.  Thanks for all you do.

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  10. On March 19, 2007 @ 7:40 am felisha marie taylor said:
    • Hey greg, I went to the youth confrence in st. louis and i have tried to come on and type this soooo many times and i just haven’t had enough time. well i want you to know that when iwe did the  phone call thing i called my ex-boyfriend and he accepted christ that night, i called my sister she is a wicca and ishe screamed at me then hung up , i called my bff and he is already a christian and he said that it was really cool that i was there ,but so was he it was so awesome.two of the youth with our group got saved and the totally buzzed look is great by the way but back on track two of our youth got saved and it was groul (great& cool) well i have got to get back to work so ttyl…..:D Your sister in Christ, Felisha Marie Taylor osceola first baptist  god Bless you!!!!!

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