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		<title>By: Katelyn Marissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katelyn Marissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 11:59:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey,This doesn&#039;t have anything to do with your post...but ALOT to do with our religious freedoms..I got an e-mail about the &quot;Hate Crimes&quot; bill and I felt the need to share it with you and the other Christians that read this.

http://www.afa.net/pdfs/gospelofhate.pdf Congress will soon be voting on the so-call &quot;Hate Crimes&quot; bill. 

Call your two senators and representative and ask them to vote against the &quot;Hate Crimes&quot; bill. You can reach all three at 202-224-3121. 
I&#039;m not sure if that number will work for you or not but it&#039;s worth the shot!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey,This doesn&#8217;t have anything to do with your post&#8230;but ALOT to do with our religious freedoms..I got an e-mail about the &#8220;Hate Crimes&#8221; bill and I felt the need to share it with you and the other Christians that read this.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.afa.net/pdfs/gospelofhate.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.afa.net/pdfs/gospelofhate.pdf</a> Congress will soon be voting on the so-call &#8220;Hate Crimes&#8221; bill. </p>
<p>Call your two senators and representative and ask them to vote against the &#8220;Hate Crimes&#8221; bill. You can reach all three at 202-224-3121.<br />
I&#8217;m not sure if that number will work for you or not but it&#8217;s worth the shot!</p>
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		<title>By: jennifer</title>
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		<dc:creator>jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 23:42:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Greg for hitting this on the head today. My dad hasn&#039;t spoken to me in almost 3 months since my husband executed the orders that left us in CA. a few weeks ago my mom called and told me he has terminal lung cancer and that I wasn&#039;t supposed to know... so I got to talk to his voicemail today - my mom called me back and said he wasnt taking calls. I am an only child and 3000 miles from being able to see him. All that aside. my daddy through the yrs has been tough as nails to reach with the Gospel since I got saved 11 yrs ago. please pray someone can reach him before it is too late. He is giving up. thanks!
jennifer</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Greg for hitting this on the head today. My dad hasn&#8217;t spoken to me in almost 3 months since my husband executed the orders that left us in CA. a few weeks ago my mom called and told me he has terminal lung cancer and that I wasn&#8217;t supposed to know&#8230; so I got to talk to his voicemail today &#8211; my mom called me back and said he wasnt taking calls. I am an only child and 3000 miles from being able to see him. All that aside. my daddy through the yrs has been tough as nails to reach with the Gospel since I got saved 11 yrs ago. please pray someone can reach him before it is too late. He is giving up. thanks!<br />
jennifer</p>
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		<title>By: Katelyn Marissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katelyn Marissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 21:03:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, I&#039;d like to share something with you that I wrote June 12th, 2009 at 12:01 and it describes exactly how I feel today and made me feel alot better. So, here it is..

No One Else Knows
lyrics by building 429 

My world is closing in
On the inside
But Iâ€™m not showing it
When all I am is crying out
I hold it in and fake a smile
Still Iâ€™m broken
Iâ€™m broken
Only one can understand
And only one can hold the hand
Of the broken
Of the broken

When no one else knows how I feel
Your love for me is proven real
When no one else cares where Iâ€™ve been
You run to me with outstretched hands
And You hold me in your arms
Again

I need no explanation of why me
I just need confirmation
Only You could understand the
emptiness inside my head
I am falling
I am falling
Iâ€™m falling down upon my knees
To find the one who gives me peace
I am flying
Lord I am flying

When no one else knows how I feel
Your love for me is proven real
When no one else cares where Iâ€™ve been
You run to me with outstretched hands
And You hold me in Your arms
Again

I have come to you in search of faith
Cause I canâ€™t see beyond this place
Oh You are God and I am man
So Iâ€™ll leave it in Your hands

 
I just love the message of this song.  I love this part; &quot; When no one else cares where Iâ€™ve been You run to me with outstretched hands And You hold me in Your arms Again&quot;

He runs to you with out stretched hands. Sometimes, more often than not, I want Jesus to put &quot;skin on&quot; so we can physically feel Him. How amazing would that be? 

We&#039;re his hands and his feet.... and we&#039;re that comfort to other people. (i.e co-workers, friends, family, neighbors..etc) It&#039;s quite irritating when hugging a physical human being is just not what we wanted or even needed. I&#039;d say that&#039;s when we really need Jesus to &#039;put skin on&#039; and I mean JESUS... not a mom, dad, friend, sibling. Just Jesus.... &quot;it&#039;s better to have a heart without words; than words without heart.&quot; 

When you feel like no words at all will explain how broken you feel and as bad as you want to tell your best friend (physical friend) about how you&#039;re feeling, you simply can&#039;t find the words to use... and any word you use just would not cut it. See, this is what I love about Jesus, it doesn&#039;t matter if our heart doesn&#039;t have words to use to describe our blisters on it.... Jesus knows and understands completly. 100% understands. 

It amazes me. I&#039;m glad we don&#039;t have to have words to describe the feeling we have because He already knows and understands.

&quot;He comforts the aflicted and aflicts the comfortable.&quot; 

&quot;Sometimes Jesus calms the storm, and other times He calms His child&quot;


1 Timothy 4:12,
Katelyn Marissa 

(My writing(s) make me cry when they describe me so well as that one did.)

NOTE: My dads brother, Robert came back to Jesus.  I found out on Friday at the bible study.As Atoh (my uncle) put it, &quot;One down,one to go!&quot; After bible study we went and did an outreach thing on the gas station corner, we had to leave because someone called the cops. And then we went to the taco bell street corner...and someone called the cops again. I loved it... I really want to do something like evangelism. We walked up to this one guy, and he said that drinking and smoking aren&#039;t sins and used a scripture in Mark to back himself up. No one got into arguments though! Thank God!! ( :</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, I&#8217;d like to share something with you that I wrote June 12th, 2009 at 12:01 and it describes exactly how I feel today and made me feel alot better. So, here it is..</p>
<p>No One Else Knows<br />
lyrics by building 429 </p>
<p>My world is closing in<br />
On the inside<br />
But Iâ€™m not showing it<br />
When all I am is crying out<br />
I hold it in and fake a smile<br />
Still Iâ€™m broken<br />
Iâ€™m broken<br />
Only one can understand<br />
And only one can hold the hand<br />
Of the broken<br />
Of the broken</p>
<p>When no one else knows how I feel<br />
Your love for me is proven real<br />
When no one else cares where Iâ€™ve been<br />
You run to me with outstretched hands<br />
And You hold me in your arms<br />
Again</p>
<p>I need no explanation of why me<br />
I just need confirmation<br />
Only You could understand the<br />
emptiness inside my head<br />
I am falling<br />
I am falling<br />
Iâ€™m falling down upon my knees<br />
To find the one who gives me peace<br />
I am flying<br />
Lord I am flying</p>
<p>When no one else knows how I feel<br />
Your love for me is proven real<br />
When no one else cares where Iâ€™ve been<br />
You run to me with outstretched hands<br />
And You hold me in Your arms<br />
Again</p>
<p>I have come to you in search of faith<br />
Cause I canâ€™t see beyond this place<br />
Oh You are God and I am man<br />
So Iâ€™ll leave it in Your hands</p>
<p>I just love the message of this song.  I love this part; &#8221; When no one else cares where Iâ€™ve been You run to me with outstretched hands And You hold me in Your arms Again&#8221;</p>
<p>He runs to you with out stretched hands. Sometimes, more often than not, I want Jesus to put &#8220;skin on&#8221; so we can physically feel Him. How amazing would that be? </p>
<p>We&#8217;re his hands and his feet&#8230;. and we&#8217;re that comfort to other people. (i.e co-workers, friends, family, neighbors..etc) It&#8217;s quite irritating when hugging a physical human being is just not what we wanted or even needed. I&#8217;d say that&#8217;s when we really need Jesus to &#8216;put skin on&#8217; and I mean JESUS&#8230; not a mom, dad, friend, sibling. Just Jesus&#8230;. &#8220;it&#8217;s better to have a heart without words; than words without heart.&#8221; </p>
<p>When you feel like no words at all will explain how broken you feel and as bad as you want to tell your best friend (physical friend) about how you&#8217;re feeling, you simply can&#8217;t find the words to use&#8230; and any word you use just would not cut it. See, this is what I love about Jesus, it doesn&#8217;t matter if our heart doesn&#8217;t have words to use to describe our blisters on it&#8230;. Jesus knows and understands completly. 100% understands. </p>
<p>It amazes me. I&#8217;m glad we don&#8217;t have to have words to describe the feeling we have because He already knows and understands.</p>
<p>&#8220;He comforts the aflicted and aflicts the comfortable.&#8221; </p>
<p>&#8220;Sometimes Jesus calms the storm, and other times He calms His child&#8221;</p>
<p>1 Timothy 4:12,<br />
Katelyn Marissa </p>
<p>(My writing(s) make me cry when they describe me so well as that one did.)</p>
<p>NOTE: My dads brother, Robert came back to Jesus.  I found out on Friday at the bible study.As Atoh (my uncle) put it, &#8220;One down,one to go!&#8221; After bible study we went and did an outreach thing on the gas station corner, we had to leave because someone called the cops. And then we went to the taco bell street corner&#8230;and someone called the cops again. I loved it&#8230; I really want to do something like evangelism. We walked up to this one guy, and he said that drinking and smoking aren&#8217;t sins and used a scripture in Mark to back himself up. No one got into arguments though! Thank God!! ( :</p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 13:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen Leyanet! God allows pain for us to draw us close to Him. It sounds like you are learning that same lesson that many never learn! Check out 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 when you get a chance. I will pray for a full recovery in God&#039;s perfect timing. 

And why wait until July to share your faith? Reach that ear doctor who you will hopefully get to see tomorrow!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen Leyanet! God allows pain for us to draw us close to Him. It sounds like you are learning that same lesson that many never learn! Check out 2 Corinthians 12:7-10 when you get a chance. I will pray for a full recovery in God&#8217;s perfect timing. </p>
<p>And why wait until July to share your faith? Reach that ear doctor who you will hopefully get to see tomorrow!</p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 13:21:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No apology necessary. Isn&#039;t it awesome to know that we have a Daddy that loves us no matter what our earthly fathers think of us? Thank you for sharing!Now let&#039;s reach out to everyone we can with the hope of our heavenly Daddy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No apology necessary. Isn&#8217;t it awesome to know that we have a Daddy that loves us no matter what our earthly fathers think of us? Thank you for sharing!Now let&#8217;s reach out to everyone we can with the hope of our heavenly Daddy.</p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 13:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Kyle. I am proud of you man! Keep seeking to reach your dad and I will pray for you as you do! I know you&#039;ll keep me updated!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Kyle. I am proud of you man! Keep seeking to reach your dad and I will pray for you as you do! I know you&#8217;ll keep me updated!</p>
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		<title>By: Greg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 13:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s not rambling Katelyn. That&#039;s heartfelt poetry! Keep up the good work! I will pray for your father to understand and embrace the good news of His heavenly Father.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s not rambling Katelyn. That&#8217;s heartfelt poetry! Keep up the good work! I will pray for your father to understand and embrace the good news of His heavenly Father.</p>
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		<title>By: Katelyn Marissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katelyn Marissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 09:23:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I never celebrated father&#039;s day either because I have basically been &#039;fatherless&#039; my whole life...my dad was there, but wasn&#039;t there the way a daughter needs her father to be there for her. He wasn&#039;t at any of the school performances we had in Elementary or in Middle School. The last time I invited him to a performance was in eighth grade...he had two weeks in adavance. Did he come? Nope. Not a shocker there. 

My parents have been by law officialy divorced since may 8th. And it freakin HURTS! somedays it really sinks in and really hits me that my parents aren&#039;t &#039;together&#039; anymore. Honestly, I never wanted my parents to get a divorce. I just wanted things to work out with NO ONE leaving. Divorce was the answer.... I hate saying &#039;good-bye&#039; to people....these people are supposed to be the ones I look up to and have around alot of the time to set an example for me. I don&#039;t know what father&#039;s day has planned. 

People would see my grandpa and say there&#039;s your dad...( he basically is though. I just wish guys possed the gene that tells them to shut it!) even if they already know he&#039;s not my biological father they do it!! 

Last year, my dad would be gone for a few days, then weeks, then months. It was getting annoying. So, my mom said &#039;that&#039;s it, we&#039;re moving.&#039; So, me, her and my sister Kayce moved to a little house (that we&#039;re convinced a farmer with bad taste built) that has NO (except the back rooms if they count) air conditioning in it. My mom would get on our case for not leaving the doors open to our rooms. 

Back to father&#039;s day...

I saw my dad in April (NOTE: I missed school to do this!) I gave him a cardboard box that had my bible in it, a three page note filled with Jesus front to back, other notes about Jesus and a book mark I got in Springfield, Missouri. I had prepared for rejection....the thought right as I saw him was; &#039;leave, are you crazy? He&#039;ll never accept it!&#039; and then I whisspered desperatly, &quot;God, HELP ME!&quot; And he did, because I didnt get rejected!! When i handed him the box, i couldn&#039;t speak... i started getting tears instead! 

I put white duct tape on it, and wrote on it with a black sharpie  Jeremiah 29:11 (&quot;for I know the plans I have for you,&quot; declares the LORD &quot;plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.&quot;)

Me and my dad had a &#039;special day&#039; a few weeks ago, and after he took me home, I was starting to hurt inside a little... When he was getting ready to leave, I gave him a hug and asked him (I didnt think I had it in me to ask without crying!) if he read the bible i gave him, he said A little and then I asked about the papers, he said yes. And heres the shocker I wasn&#039;t expecting to hear from HIM...these words; &quot;Pray for me.&quot; I was thinking &quot;Woah, did I hear him right?&quot; I said out loud, Ok, I will. 

I love this verse in Psalms chapter 68:5; &quot;Father to the fatherless, defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling.&quot; That scrpiture helps A.L.O.T today ( :

I&#039;ll see my dad today at his work before church and ask him what he likes about the bible....

(the parents being divorced and father&#039;s day being today is starting to hit me..) God&#039;s MY Daddy! I wish he had &quot;skin on&quot; though! 

Happy Father&#039;s Day, Greg.


Sorry for the rambling ( : 


1 Timothy 4:12,
Katelyn Marissa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never celebrated father&#8217;s day either because I have basically been &#8216;fatherless&#8217; my whole life&#8230;my dad was there, but wasn&#8217;t there the way a daughter needs her father to be there for her. He wasn&#8217;t at any of the school performances we had in Elementary or in Middle School. The last time I invited him to a performance was in eighth grade&#8230;he had two weeks in adavance. Did he come? Nope. Not a shocker there. </p>
<p>My parents have been by law officialy divorced since may 8th. And it freakin HURTS! somedays it really sinks in and really hits me that my parents aren&#8217;t &#8216;together&#8217; anymore. Honestly, I never wanted my parents to get a divorce. I just wanted things to work out with NO ONE leaving. Divorce was the answer&#8230;. I hate saying &#8216;good-bye&#8217; to people&#8230;.these people are supposed to be the ones I look up to and have around alot of the time to set an example for me. I don&#8217;t know what father&#8217;s day has planned. </p>
<p>People would see my grandpa and say there&#8217;s your dad&#8230;( he basically is though. I just wish guys possed the gene that tells them to shut it!) even if they already know he&#8217;s not my biological father they do it!! </p>
<p>Last year, my dad would be gone for a few days, then weeks, then months. It was getting annoying. So, my mom said &#8216;that&#8217;s it, we&#8217;re moving.&#8217; So, me, her and my sister Kayce moved to a little house (that we&#8217;re convinced a farmer with bad taste built) that has NO (except the back rooms if they count) air conditioning in it. My mom would get on our case for not leaving the doors open to our rooms. </p>
<p>Back to father&#8217;s day&#8230;</p>
<p>I saw my dad in April (NOTE: I missed school to do this!) I gave him a cardboard box that had my bible in it, a three page note filled with Jesus front to back, other notes about Jesus and a book mark I got in Springfield, Missouri. I had prepared for rejection&#8230;.the thought right as I saw him was; &#8216;leave, are you crazy? He&#8217;ll never accept it!&#8217; and then I whisspered desperatly, &#8220;God, HELP ME!&#8221; And he did, because I didnt get rejected!! When i handed him the box, i couldn&#8217;t speak&#8230; i started getting tears instead! </p>
<p>I put white duct tape on it, and wrote on it with a black sharpie  Jeremiah 29:11 (&#8220;for I know the plans I have for you,&#8221; declares the LORD &#8220;plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.&#8221;)</p>
<p>Me and my dad had a &#8216;special day&#8217; a few weeks ago, and after he took me home, I was starting to hurt inside a little&#8230; When he was getting ready to leave, I gave him a hug and asked him (I didnt think I had it in me to ask without crying!) if he read the bible i gave him, he said A little and then I asked about the papers, he said yes. And heres the shocker I wasn&#8217;t expecting to hear from HIM&#8230;these words; &#8220;Pray for me.&#8221; I was thinking &#8220;Woah, did I hear him right?&#8221; I said out loud, Ok, I will. </p>
<p>I love this verse in Psalms chapter 68:5; &#8220;Father to the fatherless, defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling.&#8221; That scrpiture helps A.L.O.T today ( :</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll see my dad today at his work before church and ask him what he likes about the bible&#8230;.</p>
<p>(the parents being divorced and father&#8217;s day being today is starting to hit me..) God&#8217;s MY Daddy! I wish he had &#8220;skin on&#8221; though! </p>
<p>Happy Father&#8217;s Day, Greg.</p>
<p>Sorry for the rambling ( : </p>
<p>1 Timothy 4:12,<br />
Katelyn Marissa</p>
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		<title>By: Kyle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 06:05:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greg,

This has always been a rather touchy subject for me because of many of the same reasons you expressed.  When my friends ask me about my parents Iâ€™m reluctant to talk about it.  Iâ€™ve only had one stable parent figure, my Mom, and a sister with a strong handicap (A rare case of skits, ADD, depression, OCD, anxiety, and even a few more).  Itâ€™s been a long ride so far.  Like you, I didnâ€™t even know the guy I thought was my dad, wasnâ€™t my dad, until I was 12.  I knew he raised me, I knew I called him dad, but then one day I found out that the guy I called my uncle, was my biological father.  Everyone thought I knew, but they were all wrong.  I found out that this guy didnâ€™t want to raise me, or want any responsibility for that matter when it came to me.    

A few years later, the guy who raised me ended up cheating on my mom for a third time (My momâ€™s very forgiving, but you canâ€™t tolerate it).  The early preteen years were pretty rough around the house.  I was young and didnâ€™t know better, so I simply figured that he didnâ€™t want me anymore.  He got remarried to someone who despises of me and I donâ€™t talk to him much.  Then a year later my mom ended up dating some guy she knew in high school who was in the Army.  He and I didnâ€™t really get a long, but after they got married we started to get closer.  But I spent a long time by myself without a father; everyone seemed to work a lot.  

All in all, Iâ€™ve only had on steady parent â€œwith skin onâ€ being my mom, and one true father, God.  A lot of people that I tell your same answer to, â€œGodâ€™s my daddy,â€ they kind of blow it off as silly, or wacky.  Maybe your experience is different but itâ€™s hard to truly sympathize with someone on this unless they too grew up in a similar way.  Greg, Iâ€™m glad to say that in this sinful and adulterous generation that not only do you stand bold in what you believe, but you can sympathize with even the roughest situations, and relate to most anyone on some level.  Iâ€™m also glad I can say youâ€™re my brother in Christ, and even though I may not be able to understand what itâ€™s like not to have a father (with skin on) at all, I know what itâ€™s like not to have a steady one.  

May God bless you in all that you do, and everyone at Dare2Share, you guys are truly a Godsend. 


~Kyle H. 

P.S.  Any prayers for my biological father would be very well appreciated.  Like you, Greg, Iâ€™ve been trying to reach him for Christ, but Satan has such a large foothold on him.  It breaks my heart every time I see him, but I refuse to give up.  I hope someday heâ€™ll come around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greg,</p>
<p>This has always been a rather touchy subject for me because of many of the same reasons you expressed.  When my friends ask me about my parents Iâ€™m reluctant to talk about it.  Iâ€™ve only had one stable parent figure, my Mom, and a sister with a strong handicap (A rare case of skits, ADD, depression, OCD, anxiety, and even a few more).  Itâ€™s been a long ride so far.  Like you, I didnâ€™t even know the guy I thought was my dad, wasnâ€™t my dad, until I was 12.  I knew he raised me, I knew I called him dad, but then one day I found out that the guy I called my uncle, was my biological father.  Everyone thought I knew, but they were all wrong.  I found out that this guy didnâ€™t want to raise me, or want any responsibility for that matter when it came to me.    </p>
<p>A few years later, the guy who raised me ended up cheating on my mom for a third time (My momâ€™s very forgiving, but you canâ€™t tolerate it).  The early preteen years were pretty rough around the house.  I was young and didnâ€™t know better, so I simply figured that he didnâ€™t want me anymore.  He got remarried to someone who despises of me and I donâ€™t talk to him much.  Then a year later my mom ended up dating some guy she knew in high school who was in the Army.  He and I didnâ€™t really get a long, but after they got married we started to get closer.  But I spent a long time by myself without a father; everyone seemed to work a lot.  </p>
<p>All in all, Iâ€™ve only had on steady parent â€œwith skin onâ€ being my mom, and one true father, God.  A lot of people that I tell your same answer to, â€œGodâ€™s my daddy,â€ they kind of blow it off as silly, or wacky.  Maybe your experience is different but itâ€™s hard to truly sympathize with someone on this unless they too grew up in a similar way.  Greg, Iâ€™m glad to say that in this sinful and adulterous generation that not only do you stand bold in what you believe, but you can sympathize with even the roughest situations, and relate to most anyone on some level.  Iâ€™m also glad I can say youâ€™re my brother in Christ, and even though I may not be able to understand what itâ€™s like not to have a father (with skin on) at all, I know what itâ€™s like not to have a steady one.  </p>
<p>May God bless you in all that you do, and everyone at Dare2Share, you guys are truly a Godsend. </p>
<p>~Kyle H. </p>
<p>P.S.  Any prayers for my biological father would be very well appreciated.  Like you, Greg, Iâ€™ve been trying to reach him for Christ, but Satan has such a large foothold on him.  It breaks my heart every time I see him, but I refuse to give up.  I hope someday heâ€™ll come around.</p>
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		<title>By: Rose</title>
		<link>http://www.gregstier.org/rants/fathers-day-everyday/comment-page-1/#comment-132260</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 05:57:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>greg thanks for this post. 
 i just got off work and everyone was talking about thier father&#039;s day plans and i happened to remember your story from creation and wanted to see what you had to say if anything. i have come from a similar situation where my mom knew a guy for about two weeks and got pregnant with my twin sister and i and way before she even found out she was pregnant the guy she assumes is out dad was long gone. she has had so many guys over the years we turned 21 this month and it doesn&#039;t get any easier not having a father around. all the guys she has had were typically one night stands nothing more. she told us that she thought she knew who are dad was when we were 10 (she never mentioned that she thought she knew who he was when we were little) so when we found out his name we tried to find him. my half sister got ahold of him and he said he didn&#039;t want to hear from us or see what we looked like at all and thats saying it nicely. we have no idea what he looks like or anything. anyways so we have grown up with no father or guy figure in our lives just a mom with a huge drinking problem and a grandma who tries to be the mom for us. teacher in elementary school would say i was lying when i would say i had no dad and didn&#039;t want to make a card and then make me make one for the dad i didn&#039;t have. thats the only father&#039;s day memories i have. i have gone to church for around two- three years now and never on father&#039;s day because i don&#039;t want to hear all of the babble the pastor is going to mention about father&#039;s day but tomorrow i think i might give it a shot i haven&#039;t been to church in around six months maybe this is the sunday i need to think about going again.. 

thank you for your blog it means alot to know you came from the same sort of situation you are the only person i know that has a similar story to mine..

sorry for all of the rambling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>greg thanks for this post.<br />
 i just got off work and everyone was talking about thier father&#8217;s day plans and i happened to remember your story from creation and wanted to see what you had to say if anything. i have come from a similar situation where my mom knew a guy for about two weeks and got pregnant with my twin sister and i and way before she even found out she was pregnant the guy she assumes is out dad was long gone. she has had so many guys over the years we turned 21 this month and it doesn&#8217;t get any easier not having a father around. all the guys she has had were typically one night stands nothing more. she told us that she thought she knew who are dad was when we were 10 (she never mentioned that she thought she knew who he was when we were little) so when we found out his name we tried to find him. my half sister got ahold of him and he said he didn&#8217;t want to hear from us or see what we looked like at all and thats saying it nicely. we have no idea what he looks like or anything. anyways so we have grown up with no father or guy figure in our lives just a mom with a huge drinking problem and a grandma who tries to be the mom for us. teacher in elementary school would say i was lying when i would say i had no dad and didn&#8217;t want to make a card and then make me make one for the dad i didn&#8217;t have. thats the only father&#8217;s day memories i have. i have gone to church for around two- three years now and never on father&#8217;s day because i don&#8217;t want to hear all of the babble the pastor is going to mention about father&#8217;s day but tomorrow i think i might give it a shot i haven&#8217;t been to church in around six months maybe this is the sunday i need to think about going again.. </p>
<p>thank you for your blog it means alot to know you came from the same sort of situation you are the only person i know that has a similar story to mine..</p>
<p>sorry for all of the rambling.</p>
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