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		<title>How four teenagers changed the world</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 15:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/World-2-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="World-2" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>Thousands of years ago four orphaned, Jewish teenagers were forced to march to a hostile country and immersed in headfirst ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/World-2-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="World-2" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>Thousands of years ago four orphaned, Jewish teenagers were forced to march to a hostile country and immersed in headfirst into paganism. They were taught the dark arts and learned the inner secrets of the magicians and soothsayers of their powerful captors.</p>
<p>Did they protest? No! Instead they studied hard and advanced to the top of their class. In the midst of the idolatry around them, they never lost their passion for God, theological convictions or moral core. Instead their passion for God grew stronger, their theology grew deeper and their convictions became clearer.</p>
<p>Soon they were in leadership positions in this polytheistic culture filled with violence, sex, witchcraft and idolatry. When three of them were commanded to bow before an idol they refused. But they survived the fiery wrath an an angry tyrant by the power and presence of Jesus Christ.</p>
<p>These four teenagers were stellar examples of having burning hearts for God, bright minds for learning, calloused hands for working and strong spines filled with the molten steel of uncompromising resolve.</p>
<p>By now you probably know who I&#8217;m talking about: Shadrach, Meshach, Abednego and, the leader of the wolf pack, Daniel. What may surprise you is that they were most likely between 13-15 years old when they were taken into captivity which means that, after three years of training, they were in leadership positions by their late teens.</p>
<p>Imagine these four teen friends being chained and marched to Babylon after the fall of Jerusalem. Imagine their conversations among themselves as they made the long, long walk. It may have been during this time they resolved among themselves, not just to <strong>refuse</strong> to compromise, but to <strong>reverse</strong> the very culture they were being immersed in.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s exactly what they did.</p>
<p>After seeing three of the four survive the fiery furnace (with not even a singed beard) and hearing Daniel prophesy seven years of humbling insanity for the proud king, Nebuchadnezzar had a full mental break down. For seven years he became King Crazy Hobo. He slept outside, grew his fingernails as long as talons and ate grass with his bovine buddies.</p>
<p>After seven years of pure craziness the king came to his senses, humbled himself and turned to the true God of the universe in faith. He actually wrote Daniel 4 to share his salvation story. He ended the chapter with these words, <em>&#8220;Now I Nebuchadnezzar praise and extol and honor the King of heaven, all whose works are truth, and his ways judgment: and those that walk in pride he is able to abase.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>The mightiest King of one of the mightiest empires in human history was brought to his knees by the testimony of one prophesying young man, three uncompromising young men and seven insane years of judgment.</p>
<p>Imagine the implications throughout Babylon at the conversion of the King. No longer would Jews have to hide or hold their heads in shame. The king served their King! And it all started because four teenagers made a pact to serve God wholeheartedly when they were whisked away to a foreign culture.</p>
<p>In the same way, a small but determined team of uncompromising teenagers can learn to reverse the pagan culture they have been immersed in. They don&#8217;t need to protest or picket the pagan culture around them. They don&#8217;t need to burn their laptops or throw their smartphones in the trash. Instead they need to infiltrate this culture, accelerate in it and then reverse it through the power of prayer, uncompromising conviction and a bold-meets-loving-meets-shrewd proclamation of the gospel of Jesus Christ.</p>
<p>Four teenagers changed the world back in the Old Testament. Four teenagers can change the world again today. If you&#8217;re a teenager, get your cause crew ready to live  in reverse. If you&#8217;re a youth leader get your teens signed up for the brand new conference tour from Dare 2 Share called The <a href="http://www.dare2share.org/reverse">Reverse</a> Tour.</p>
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		<title>Flipping off the Devil</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 01:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Devil-Grohl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Devil-Grohl" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>When I was in the 3rd Grade at Brown Elementary School I put my faith in Jesus. From that moment ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Devil-Grohl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Devil-Grohl" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>When I was in the 3rd Grade at Brown Elementary School I put my faith in Jesus. From that moment on I knew that I had a loving Savior, a Heavenly Father and a mortal enemy. Jesus became my obsession and Satan became my nemesis. I knew from early on I wanted to spend the rest of my life serving Jesus and ticking off Satan.</p>
<p>One time while walking down the hallway of Brown Elementary on the way to class I started thinking about how much I hated Satan for having kept my mom, and much of my family, spiritually captive for so long. I started thinking how he had blinded my eyes to the light of the gospel for nine &#8220;<em>whole</em>&#8221; years. I reflected on the damage he had helped to bring about in my own high-crime rate neighborhood. </p>
<p>When my mom turned on the news during dinner, I thought about the violence, crime and sin Satan was triggering and reveling in, not only in my family and neighborhood, but in the world at large. As I walked down the hallway thinking all that Satan had done to destroy the world and my family I did what <em>any</em> 3rd Grade Christian young man would do, I flipped off the devil. In my mind I was simply giving the devil his due&#8230;double birdies from my tiny middle fingers.</p>
<p>And I didn&#8217;t just flip off the devil once and then stop. I kept my middle fingers extended straight down toward what I thought to be his hellish home. With streams of elementary school kids walking by me in the hallway I&#8217;m sure there were a lot of scratched heads and strange looks, but I was too busy to notice. That was, until a teacher stopped me and asked me what the heck was going on. He saw my furrowed brow, my intense gaze toward the floor and two downward digits in the 6 o&#8217;clock position.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;What are you doing young man?&#8221;</em> the teacher asked.</p>
<p>I looked up, disgusted by his interruption (of what I considered to be a holy moment), and responded matter-of-factly, <em>&#8220;I&#8217;m flipping off the Devil.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>If I remember right he told me to stop and then kept on walking down the hallway. I&#8217;m sure he was wondering what kind of strange kid he had at his school.</p>
<p>He was right. I was strange. But I did have a very real God awareness and, therefore, a real Satan awareness too. The reality of God enthralled me and the reality of Satan enraged me. I was dealing with this rage in a way that wasn&#8217;t unimaginable for a kid who was raised in a verbally and physically violent family.</p>
<p>I hadn&#8217;t read Jude 1:8-10 yet, <em>&#8220;In the same way, these people—who claim authority from their dreams—live immoral lives, defy authority, and <strong>scoff at supernatural beings</strong>. But even Michael, one of the mightiest of the angels, did not dare accuse the devil of blasphemy, but simply said, &#8216;The Lord rebuke you!&#8217; (This took place when Michael was arguing with the devil about Moses’ body.) But these people scoff at things they do not understand. Like unthinking animals, they do whatever their instincts tell them, and so they bring about their own destruction.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Suffice it to say that Jude would have spanked me for my insolence toward Satan if he were in the place of that teacher in the hallway that day&#8230;and rightfully so.</p>
<p>Of course now I know that Satan is not to be toyed with, trifled with or taunted. He is to be defeated by the blood of the Lamb and a humble reliance on the Lord. Those who mock him do so to their own demise.</p>
<p>But God had grace on a well-intentioned elementary-aged kid that day.</p>
<p>No, we shouldn&#8217;t flip off the devil with our fingers, but we certainly should upset him with our lives. We should live lives that so reflect Christ that others are drawn to Jesus. We should share the good news in such a way as to depopulate the kingdom of darkness and overcrowd the kingdom of light.</p>
<p>Do I still think about giving the devil the bird anymore? Not really. Now I&#8217;m more consumed with advancing the gospel of Jesus through an army of teenagers who are passionate about Christ and His <a href="http://www.dare2share.org/thecause">Cause</a>. I&#8217;m more concerned with giving God maximum glory than blowing out Satan&#8217;s flickering light. </p>
<p>But sometimes I&#8217;m afraid that, underneath all of my ministry activities, there&#8217;s still a little 3rd grader giving the devil the finger.</p>
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		<title>The Dare 2 Share Story</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 17:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Dare-2-Share-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Dare 2 Share" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>Have you ever wondered why we do what we do at Dare 2 Share? Did you ever want to get ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Dare-2-Share-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Dare 2 Share" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>Have you ever wondered why we do what we do at <a href="http://www.dare2share.org">Dare 2 Share</a>? Did you ever want to get the skinny of why we started to begin with? Have you ever wanted a video you could share with a friend, church or small group that really shared the vision that drives this ministry that energizes teenagers to evangelize their world? This video does just that&#8230;</p>
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<p>Show it to your small group, send it on to a friend or let your missions committee see it. Use this video to spread the word about the vision that drives Dare 2 Share and how God can use you to be a part of it.</p>
<p>The Gospel changes everything,</p>
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		<title>10 of my worst sermon gaffes, goofs and illustrations</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 14:29:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/dean-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="dean" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>When you preach for a living mistakes are bound to be made. Sometimes it&#8217;s a sermon idea. It looks good ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/dean-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="dean" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>When you preach for a living mistakes are bound to be made. Sometimes it&#8217;s a sermon idea. It looks good on paper but when it passes from paper to preaching something get&#8217;s twisted. Or perhaps it&#8217;s an illustration that you think is going to work really well but it crashes at takeoff. Or maybe it&#8217;s a gaffe you made that you wish you could retract. </p>
<p>With this as a backdrop here is a list of sermon goofs, gaffes and illustrations that I have actually done/said/used in my preaching over the last twenty five years or so&#8230;</p>
<p>1.  <strong>Gaffe</strong>: <em>&#8220;We all make mistakes. We all have cracks in our armor. Pastor Rick and I have seen each other&#8217;s cracks.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>2.  <strong>Illustration</strong>: Literally saying <em>&#8220;he had one foot in the grave&#8221; </em> at a funeral.</p>
<p>3.  <strong>Goof</strong>:  Preaching a sermon with a large price tag (that I had forgotten to remove) dangling from the left arm of my &#8220;<em>new</em>&#8221; suit (which I had gotten from Goodwill.)</p>
<p>4.  <strong>Illustration</strong>: Eating a piece of hard, butterscotch candy in front of 5,000 teens while trying to make some spiritual point. I kept trying to preach while crunching the candy but my teeth were getting stuck together. Finally I just stopped and took the time to eat the whole thing and swallow it. It was 60 seconds of pure awkward.</p>
<p>5.  <strong>Gaffe</strong>: <em>&#8220;He had two huge tumors the size of grape nuts&#8221;</em> (as opposed to grapefruits.)</p>
<p>6.  <strong>Goof</strong>:  On a preaching tour in India I was on stage facing the audience getting ready to preach my sermon. My interpreter told me at one point in the service, <em>&#8220;As a guest speaker it would be good for the people to see you give in the offering.&#8221;</em> When the priest walked out onto the other side of the large stage with a huge bowl I figured this was my cue. Getting up, I walked across the stage and dropped in a five spot. The priest smiled and nodded nervously. I walked back across the stage with everyone watching me. After sitting down my interpreter whispered in my ear, <em>&#8220;Pastor Stier that was very good&#8230;but that was not the offering plate.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>7.  <strong>Illustration</strong>: About 18 years ago I wanted to make a point to 75 teens at an event that God has given us spiritual weapons to overcome the &#8220;<em>monsters</em>&#8221; of fear that keep us from sharing our faith. A youth leader friend loaned me a fake gun that supposedly shot blanks. At a point in the sermon I had cued some guys dressed up in scary costumes (representing the monsters of fear) to come rushing in screaming. It was then I held up the &#8220;<em>gospel gun</em>&#8221; and shot in their direction. It didn&#8217;t shoot blanks after all. It was some sort of riot dispersement gun that sprayed the crowd with a cloud of mace or pepper spray or something bad. Not only that, but it backfired in my face and I immediately began to cough and wheeze&#8230;along with the rest of the audience. Suffice it to say we took a break as everyone rushed outside for air. Thank the Lord nobody got hurt (or sued!)</p>
<p>8.  <strong>Goof</strong>:  While being interviewed on a live Christian television show (that leaned Pentecostal) I was looking directly in the camera telling the story of a girl who trusted in Jesus at a <a href="http://www.dare2share.org">Dare 2 Share </a>conference. I saw a hand go up out of the corner of my right eye. It was the left hand of the well dressed older preacher who was interviewing me. Since he was sitting right next to me on the couch I assumed he was holding up his hand for a high five, so I turned and gave a hearty slap to his uplifted hand. It was then I realized that, as I was telling the story, he was lifting his hands up in praise to God. I suddenly realized that I had high-fived his <em>praise hand</em>&#8230;on live television. Everyone in the room was stunned and silent, except for the cameraman who was laughing so hard the camera was shaking.</p>
<p>9.  <strong>Illustration</strong>:  Trying to eat the guts of a bad cantaloupe while making the point that <em>&#8220;it&#8217;s what on the inside that counts&#8221;</em> or something like that. Oh yeah, it was in front of thousands of teenagers at a Dare 2 Share conference too. If I remember right I tried to clean off my tongue right after that with some kind of sanitized hand wipe which numbed my tongue and lips.</p>
<p>10. <strong>Gaffe</strong>:  <em>&#8220;Let everything that has breasts praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Actually I&#8217;ve had a few worse gaffes, goofs and sermon illustrations&#8230;but some things are not fit for print.</p>
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		<title>Get the Word out before school&#8217;s out</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 15:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/alice_cooper_by_gass13-d2zr3qu-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="alice_cooper_by_gass13-d2zr3qu" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>&#8220;School&#8217;s out for summer
School&#8217;s out forever
School&#8217;s been blown to pieces
No more pencils
No more books
No more teacher&#8217;s dirty looks.&#8221;
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/alice_cooper_by_gass13-d2zr3qu-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="alice_cooper_by_gass13-d2zr3qu" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p><em>&#8220;School&#8217;s out for summer<br />
School&#8217;s out forever<br />
School&#8217;s been blown to pieces</p>
<p>No more pencils<br />
No more books<br />
No more teacher&#8217;s dirty looks.&#8221;</em><br />
            School&#8217;s out for the Summer, Alice Cooper.</p>
<p>Sorry Alice. Teens still have a few more weeks of school left. And what that means for youth leaders is that you have a few weeks to help your teens get the Word out. </p>
<p><strong>Help them get the Word out about hope.</strong></p>
<p>Suicide, cutting and depression await many teens this summer. Alone in their rooms with too much time to waste, wonder and worry many self-conscious/absorbed teenagers will give into the pain that lurks deep inside them. They need to hear the hope that the gospel has for them before school gets out.</p>
<p><strong>Help them get the Word out about forgiveness.</strong></p>
<p>The bile of bitterness is what some teens marinate in during the hot summer months. Perhaps they&#8217;ve been hurt or abused and now, unforgiveness holds them hostage. But when they hear the good news they can break free. They can forgive because they&#8217;ve been forgiven. </p>
<p><strong>Help them get the Word out about Jesus.</strong></p>
<p>Jesus is <em>&#8220;the way and the truth and the life&#8221;</em> and he is the only way to God. When teens trust in this simple <em>GOSPEL</em><em><a href="http://www.lifein6words.com"></a> message they can be saved from the hell they are headed to and the one they may be going through right now.</p>
<p>Inspire your teens to get the <em>Word</em> out (literally.) Equip them to share their faith. Have them download the <a href="http://get.thechurchapp.org/share/dare-2-share-ministries/">Dare 2 Share app</a> to get started. Then challenge them to engage gospel conversations with their friends before the final bell rings.</p>
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		<title>The Evangelistic Teeter Totter</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 14:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/teeter-totter-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="teeter totter" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p><em>&#8220;Lord give me the mixture of the lion and the lamb.&#8221;</em>  George Whitefield</p>
<p>Yesterday, after I preached a sermon about sharing the gospel at <a href="http://www.atgrace.com">Grace Church</a> in Eden Prairie, MN, a nice lady approached me and asked me how introverts like her are supposed to share their faith. I thought this was a great question. It applies, not only to adults, but also to teenagers.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re a youth leader you most likely have plenty of introverts and extroverts in your youth group. Both sides need coaching. That&#8217;s why we developed the concept of the evangelistic teeter totter at <a href="http://www.dare2share">Dare 2 Share</a> to help both kinds of teenagers. On one side of the teeter totter there are those who tend to be relational. On the other side there are those who tend to be relentless.</p>
<p>Many extroverted teens fall on the relentless side of the teeter totter. They may bring the gospel up too quickly or abruptly in conversations. For many of them there is no <em>&#8220;salvation segue&#8221; </em>into the gospel. Instead, there&#8217;s a hard right turn. At times these teens can be argumentative if others don&#8217;t agree with them on their spiritual views. The positive side of this approach is that many people hear the gospel and those who are ready can respond quickly. </p>
<p>I fall firmly on the relentless side of the evangelistic teeter totter. Many evangelists often do.</p>
<p>Many introverted teenagers fall on the relational side of the evangelistic teeter totter. They slowly build relationships over weeks, months or even years. If and when they do bring the gospel up, the people they&#8217;re sharing the good news with may be surprised they didn&#8217;t bring it up earlier. These teenagers have a hard time pulling the trigger when the opportunity to talk about spiritual things arises. The positive side of this approach is that these teenagers make disciples, not just converts, because they tend not to practice <em>&#8220;hit and run&#8221;</em> evangelism. </p>
<p>My wife firmly falls on the relational side of the evangelistic teeter tooter. So does the nice lady I talked to yesterday at Grace Church.</p>
<p>So what was my advice to this lady? Simply this: Whatever side of the evangelistic teeter totter you sit on ask God, through His Holy Spirit, to sit on the other side. Only He can balance you out perfectly. If you&#8217;re relational ask God to balance you out with a holy relentlessness that will embolden you. If you&#8217;re relentless ask God to balance you out with a relational love that will help you to slow down, listen patiently and gently share the good news.</p>
<p>Coach your teens to speak the truth in love and find the balance between relational and relentless. All the while learn how to strike the balance yourself in your own evangelistic efforts.</p>
<p>Speaking of that, which side of the teeter totter do you fall on?</p>
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		<title>Dare 2 Share&#8217;s tribute to (and ripoff of) &#8220;The Office&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 May 2013 14:28:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/the-office-nbc-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="the-office-nbc" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>On May 16th the series called &#8220;The Office&#8221; will officially end. It had a good run. In honor of it&#8217;s ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/the-office-nbc-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="the-office-nbc" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>On May 16th the series called &#8220;<em>The Office</em>&#8221; will officially end. It had a good run. In honor of it&#8217;s kookiness those of us at <a href="http://www.dare2share.org">Dare 2 Share </a>did our own version a few years back. Enjoy.</p>
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		<title>Dear Youth Leader,</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 15:37:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Letter-to-Youth-Pastor-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Letter-to-Youth-Pastor" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>Dear Youth Leader, 
As you read this letter perhaps it&#8217;s 9:25pm on a Wednesday night. The last teenager and adult ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Letter-to-Youth-Pastor-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Letter-to-Youth-Pastor" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>Dear Youth Leader, </p>
<p>As you read this letter perhaps it&#8217;s 9:25pm on a Wednesday night. The last teenager and adult volunteer have left the building and you&#8217;re stuck folding the metal chairs and doing your best to clean the youth room so the church custodian doesn&#8217;t get mad at you&#8230;again. </p>
<p>To add insult to spilt Coke, tonight may have been one of &#8220;<em>those</em>&#8221; nights for you. Your jokes fell flat and that group of arrogant churchy kids (who always sit in the back left corner) were mocking you with whispers from their giggling Pharisee paradise. The preacher&#8217;s kid glared at you, daring you to call out daddy&#8217;s dearest in public. You took his dare and was met with rolling eyes and heavy sighs by him and his sarcastic posse.</p>
<p>Down deep inside you may be wondering if you&#8217;re making a difference at all. You&#8217;re scrolling through your weekly to do list and it may seem more like meetings than mission. You&#8217;re tired of the stress youth ministry triggers at home, at church and, most of all, down deep inside your own heart.</p>
<p>You may be thinking about giving up. </p>
<p>You may be wondering if it&#8217;s worth the small paychecks and big headaches.</p>
<p>You may be considering hanging up your paintball gun and canceling your subscription to <a href="http://www.groupmagazine.com">Group Magazine</a>.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>It <em>is</em> worth it. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s worth every late night text from every frantic teen girl who just got dumped. It&#8217;s worth every angry phone call from a can&#8217;t-understand-why-you-let-<em><a href="http://www.gregstier.org/rants/that-kid/#sthash.RgibMswy.dpbs">those</a></em>-kids-in-youth-group parent.</p>
<p>Think about Jenna who put her trust in Jesus last summer at camp. She was a cutter and suicidal. But your talk on Friday night made her run to the front of the auditorium and collapse in your arms sobbing. But she wasn&#8217;t really running to you. She was running to Jesus and he was hugging her through you.</p>
<p>And you can&#8217;t forget about Jake, the tough kid who Jeremy brought out to youth group last month. Not only did he believe in Jesus as a result of Jake sharing the gospel with him, but now he&#8217;s leading the charge for evangelism at Jefferson High School. And it all started when you taught Jeremy to share his faith and then challenged him to do it.</p>
<p>Degree by degree your teens are changing. Every talk you give, every mission trip you coordinate and every prayer you utter are nudging most of your teens closer to Jesus in often imperceptible but deeply undeniable ways.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let the left corner kids discourage you. Don&#8217;t let that nemesis elder dissuade you. Don&#8217;t let the politics of puberty rob you of your calling.</p>
<p>Keep praying, teaching and discipling. Keep energizing to evangelize. Keep loving teens relentlessly with the love of Jesus.</p>
<p>And one day, when you collapse in his arms after a job well done, you&#8217;ll hear <em>&#8220;Well done&#8221;</em> whispered in your ear. In a flash he&#8217;ll show you the kingdom impact you made in the form of changed lives and saved souls. He&#8217;ll show you how he used all the youth ministry trials you endured to make you more dependent on him and, as a result, more effective in your ministry. He&#8217;ll show you the full extent of your investment.</p>
<p>That will be the real payday. That will be the ultimate pay off. On that day you&#8217;ll realize in full that it was all worth it. </p>
<p>So, until that day, stand your post and embrace your calling.</p>
<p>You are a youth leader.</p>
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		<title>10 things I miss about being a pastor</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2013 14:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Preacher-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Preacher" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div>For ten years of my life I was a preaching pastor at a church I helped plant with my good ...]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Preacher-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="Preacher" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p>For ten years of my life I was a preaching pastor at a church I helped plant with my good buddy <a href="https://www.facebook.com/rick.long.395?ref=ts&#038;fref=ts">Rick Long</a> (<a href="http://www.grace-alone.org">Grace Church of Arvada</a>.) This weekend I&#8217;ve been preaching all three services at my old stomping grounds and it&#8217;s got me reminiscing. With this in mind here are 10 things I miss about being a pastor:</p>
<p>1.  Working the foyer before and after the services (I worked that foyer like a politician running for office!)</p>
<p>2.  The thrill and nervousness of having to come up with fresh sermons every week.</p>
<p>3.  Awkward side hugs (actually I don&#8217;t miss those!)</p>
<p>4.  Delegating the tough counseling situations to the elder who was giving me the hardest time <img src='http://www.gregstier.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>5.  My mom yelling answers to my rhetorical questions right in the middle of my sermons.</p>
<p>6.  Seeing people put their faith in Jesus every week during the services.</p>
<p>7.  Working on staff with life-long friends.</p>
<p>8.  The people: watching them go from new convert to disciple to disciple multiplier over the course of time.</p>
<p>9.  Being a pastor that FULLY supports the youth ministry.</p>
<p>10. Sunday afternoon naps (it was my ritual after preaching 3 services!)</p>
<p>Would I ever go back to being a preaching pastor? No. To be honest I was way better at the preaching part than the pastoring part. But, preaching at Grace Church this weekend brought back some good memories of helping to lay the foundation for what is a great church today. I&#8217;m thrilled that Rick is doing such a great job as preaching pastor at Grace. He&#8217;s good at both parts (preaching and pastoring.)</p>
<p>As for me? I&#8217;ll stick to energizing a generation to evangelizing their world through <a href="http://www.dare2share.org">Dare 2 Share</a>. Unfortunately that still comes with awkward side hugs!</p>
<p>Viva LA Cause!</p>
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		<title>How to make a &#8220;salvation segue&#8221; without it sounding like a &#8220;Jesus juke&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2013 14:58:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Greg</dc:creator>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.gregstier.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/SSATQEPPQHLEEDQ.20101106185957-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail wp-post-image" alt="SSATQEPPQHLEEDQ.20101106185957" style="margin-bottom: 15px;" /></div><p><a href="http://www.jonacuff.com">Jon Acuff</a> (of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Stuff-Christians-Like-Jonathan-Acuff/dp/0310319943">Stuff Christians Like</a> fame) describes what a Jesus juke is, &#8220;<em>Like a football player juking you at the last second and going a different direction, the Jesus Juke is when someone takes what is clearly a joke filled conversation and completely reverses direction into something serious and holy.&#8221; </em> Jesus juking, depending on the severity, can turn a light hearted conversation into a party pooper&#8217;s paradise.</p>
<p>This is exactly  what you DON&#8217;T want to do when you are seeking to share the gospel with someone. You want to make a smooth segue into the subject of salvation in a way that the person you are talking with doesn&#8217;t feel, well, juked or spooked.</p>
<p>Last night on a plane ride home from Houston I was sitting in the exit row with another guy. He worked for the airlines and we talked about his life on the road, his workout routine (we&#8217;re both doing <a href="http://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/insanity.do">Insanity</a>) and our families. When we were 30 minutes or so from landing, I was praying about how to turn the conversation spiritual without resorting to the juke. I remembered that earlier in the conversation he gave me some workout videos on a flashdrive to watch. The Holy Spirit used his gift to spark an idea. I said, <em>&#8220;Hey, you gave me some videos, I&#8217;d like to give you one too.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>I gave him the <a href="http://www.lifein6words.com">www.lifein6words.com</a> website and told him that on this site he could watch the best spoken word presentation of the gospel I&#8217;d ever seen. I told him about my friend Jason Petty (aka &#8220;Propaganda&#8221;) and how great he was at sharing the gospel via spoken word. He seemed genuinely intrigued and opened up to me about wanting to find a church. He told me that he really wanted to get his three year old daughter into church and that his wife wanted to find one as well.</p>
<p>Soon we were talking about the gospel in a very natural way. Before we got off the plane he told me he was really looking forward to watching the spoken word video by <a href="https://www.facebook.com/propaganda">Propaganda</a>. </p>
<p>As I reflect back on this conversation I see four things that happened to make a natural segue to the subject of salvation. Maybe these four actions will help you as well:</p>
<p><strong>1.  Just start talking.</strong></p>
<p>Introduce yourself and be cordial. Ask questions, listen deeply and be genuinely interested in what they have to say. Ask them questions about what they do for a living and for fun. Talk to them about their family, interests and passions.</p>
<p><strong>2.  Look for areas of common interest.</strong></p>
<p>The conversation on the plane really started to ignite when we both started talking about the Insanity work out program. He was really into it and so was I. We compared notes, talked about trying to do Insanity in hotel rooms and how it would was disruptive to anybody rooming on the floor right beneath you. It was here when the ice was broken and he really started to open up and talk.</p>
<p><strong>3.  Pray for God to open your eyes to a way to bring up the Gospel naturally.</strong></p>
<p>As we were getting to the end of the flight I was getting twitchy because I hadn&#8217;t shared the gospel yet. But I didn&#8217;t want to just grind the gears and yank the steering wheel toward the subject of Jesus (without using the clutch anyway.) So I prayed. As a result, God&#8217;s Spirit prompted me to remember the videos this guy had given me and that I could use these videos as a way to talk about the <em>Life in 6 Words</em> video.</p>
<p>If you pray, stay dependent on the Spirit and just start a conversation you&#8217;ll be shocked how many times there are natural salvation segues you can take to turn the subject spiritual in a very natural way. Ask God to open the door and He will. Here&#8217;s how the apostle Paul put it in Colossians 4:3-6,<em>&#8220;And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>Paul&#8217;s goal wasn&#8217;t to puke the gospel onto everyone and juke conversations unnaturally toward Jesus. He wanted his conversations to be <em>&#8220;full of grace&#8221;</em> and &#8220;<em>seasoned with salt.</em>&#8221; He wanted to be as smooth as possible so that those he was sharing with would really hear the message of the gospel without being turned off by how he brought it up. For a great example of Paul making a salvation segue check out <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Acts+17&#038;version=NIV">Acts 17:16-34.</a></p>
<p><strong>4.  Don&#8217;t chicken out at the last minute.</strong></p>
<p>There have been many times in my life where that door of opportunity has been cracked opened and I slammed it shut at the last minute. Whether it was the social awkwardness of dropping the <a href="http://www.gregstier.org/rants/drop-the-j-bomb/#sthash.hPnlWa5E.dpbs">&#8220;J bomb&#8221;</a> too early on someone or just opting out because of fear, there have been more times than I&#8217;d like to admit where I forsook an opportunity to share the good news. Yes, even &#8220;the <a href="http://www.dare2share.org">Dare 2 Share</a> guy&#8221; chickens out sometimes. I regret those missed opportunities deeply.</p>
<p>So seize the moment when God opens the door and turn the conversation toward Jesus in the most natural way you can. Even if your salvation segues are clunky at first, remember that <em>&#8220;love covers a multitude of sins&#8221;</em>&#8230;and awkwardness. </p>
<p>Love, listen and then take the leap. </p>
<p>But try not juking.</p>
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